Negativity
I have read the book Secrets it says when you send out positive or negative energy to the universe you will get back the same energy. The power of energy is somewhat real to me but I believe if you do something good something good will come back to you and I’m sure I’m not the only one in the world that believes in this.
Here is my issue I have a colleague that is so negative it effects everyone around here and since I’m closer to her I feel it more, she always looks at the bad side of things and has a negative outlook on everything we do at the company, new clients we sign and every little thing that happens I reached my limit with her honest to god its bringing everyone down especially me.
I want a way to tell her not to do this anymore but in a nice way where she doesn’t take it personally even though it is. PLEASE HELP!!
Personal Belongings
I like to drink my green tea in a big mug which I brought to the office from home and I have made sure everyone knew its mine. The issue is that this 20 year old kid doesn’t seem to understand that I do not like anyone drinking or touching my stuff (OCD) he did it the first time and I simply said “don’t use my mug please” but that didn’t get to him because yesterday he used it and make coffee with milk (I hate the smell of milk and coffee smell doesn’t go away when you wash it for the first time) so I said to him in a very polite way “don’t use my mug every again” his reply is what got me so mad “I didn’t use it I only drank from it”
I was so angry I thought why should I be nice “I guess your parents didn’t teach you to respect others” “you’re a disgusting human”
I understand that I should of let it go but these types of people that have no boundaries, like once I left my water bottle on the table and because he was thirsty and too lazy to walk 5 steps to get his own he drank from mine. That’s not all he is a very dirty disgusting person he once found an old chewed gum in his pocket and popped it in his mouth. The good thing is his last working day in June 1st so I only have to handle this for less than a month.